Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast
Unhooked is a podcast dedicated to helping people break free from porn addiction and other compulsive behaviors related to the internet, sex, and intimacy. Rooted in Buddhist wisdom, neuroscience, coaching, and mindfulness, the show explores practical strategies for lasting recovery and personal transformation. Each episode features leading experts, scientists, coaches, and individuals in recovery, sharing their insights, experiences, and expertise to guide listeners on their path to healing and freedom.
Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast
151. Sam Tielemans, Part 2 - How to Rebuild Intimacy and Heal Relationships After Betrayal
In this episode of the Unhooked Podcast, I'm joined once again by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Sam Tielemans, who has dedicated over 15 years to helping men break free from porn addiction and rebuild emotional intimacy. We delve into practical strategies for creating emotional safety and rebuilding trust in relationships following betrayal or secrecy. Sam and I discuss the importance of collaborative healing as a couple, effective ways to communicate, and how to validate and support a partner's pain without becoming defensive. Sam offers insights on how tackling relational issues can accelerate personal growth and provides actionable steps for handling relapses and sustaining honest communication. Join us for valuable advice on overcoming challenges and strengthening relationships through mindful practices and empathy.
🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro
Connect with Jeremy:
🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/
🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz
📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com
Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
02:38 Deep Dive into Healing Relationships
03:42 The Importance of Couples' Work
05:16 Navigating Relationship Complexities
07:03 Practical Steps for Healing Together
08:08 Validating and Acknowledging Partner's Pain
10:13 Effective Communication Strategies
15:57 Balancing Ownership and Education
24:37 Stabilizing the Relationship
26:05 Understanding Underlying Emotions
28:13 Effective Communication Strategies
33:00 Navigating Honesty and Accountability
38:35 Repairing and Rebuilding Trust
46:51 Hope and Transformation in Relationships
Connect with Sam Tielemans
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samtielemans_mft
🌍 Website: https://healingcouples.org/
🔗 Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/32uM9Y9DxEzyhAYLpPZzbQ?si=6ddd21c6f4a94677
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